Is a scam

I recently was asked in a forum that I moderate about an adult rated website called when I first researched this site it reminded me allot like the first adult rated site that I encountered that had bots in it. This site at that time was called I knew something was fishy about sex search the first time I signed up mainly because I was getting winks and emails from hot female members the instant I signed up, not only that but I didn’t complete my profile and also I didn’t have a picture up.

Being that I had been a member of Adult Friend Finder for about a year at that time and had a pretty good understanding how this online industry worked I knew instantly that was either hiring people to wink and email me or they had tapped into a female psyche that was making them all horny for men. Unfortunately for me it turned out that had been using bots.

Before you pay and sign up for make sure you read the terms and conditions

Before you submit your credit card information I highly recommend reading or at least skimming over the terms and conditions. Below is a brief excerpt from the terms and conditions which can be found by going to

14. Online Emissary™ Feature. may, at its discretion, cause or allow You to be contacted by one or more Online Emissaries as a part of’s Online Emissary™ feature.

14.1 An Online Emissary™ may be a real person, such as another Member, a digital actor, an avatar or a synthespian (e.g. a computer generated “person” or “character”). Online Emissaries may be employed by or a third party to enhance Your online experience. For example, an Online Emissary™ may provide an electronic introduction to new or existing features or functionality.


Final thoughts on

For the record is not the only adult website doing this, most of the adult rated websites do this mainly because it’s really expensive to make money in the competitive online dating industry. If you read and understand the terms it’s not considered a scam, but if you haven’t read the terms I could see how people would call it a scam. As it stands now Adult Friend Finder is largest swingers site on the internet by  large margin so most of the interested women sign up there.

Adult Friend Finder has been around since 1996 they know this industry inside and out and if you’re looking for an adult rated dating site to join you stand you best chance of success if you join Adult Friend Finder. One thing I will point out however is that the culture in Adult Friend Finder is long been established don’t think you’re going to sign up do nothing and have success. Put up a profile, upload a picture and flirt it’s always worked for me, try not to be negative and say negative things either. This is not some cheap free dating site where people aren’t serious the women here are serious so carry yourself with some maturity if you want success.

The reason most of the women use this platform to meet guys is because they learn more about the man before they physically meet them in person, at the forum I moderate we had this private discussion over the weekend with 25 women ages 20 – 46 and overwhelmingly that was answer to why women use online dating sites. So I highly recommend being yourself, you don’t want to say too much on your profile but say enough on your profile to spark some curiosity.

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