I’ve been gathering information from my subscribers on the forum and some of the blogs I participate in and the common theme as far free online international internet dating goes is that people namely men are getting scammed by women who claim they are real but they later find out that they’re fake. Now, as a person who is getting up there in age, I don’t like wasting time with non-premium international dating services, if you’re in your adult teens or early twenties I understand why you’d assume that you have all the time in the world scouring the net for free dating websites.
But as far as my perspective goes I prefer simplicity and that’s why I recommend A Foreign Affair which is not just an international dating website it’s also an international dating introduction service. Why I’ve written so extensively on Foreign Affair is because fake members aren’t the problem at all, in most instances the problem is men not showing up to the romance tours. Every single person that’s taken me up on the offer to join us on one of the Foreign Affair romance tours have said this is life changing.
The problem with a lot of men in today’s world is they’re no longer explorers like their ancestors were. Our ancestors weren’t afraid to travel. In the old world our ancestors had to travel by boat, imagine taking a boat from the United Kingdom to the Americas? Well, now we have planes and jets and people who will not only cater to the rich but to the average middle-class individual. I don’t get it, I’ve in past posts said if you’re not financially able maybe Foreign Affair isn’t for you, but what I’ve noticed is that money isn’t the problem with most of the men, the problem seems to be fear.
I find this fear to be really odd in the modern man, and if you have a fear to find happiness, I think you should seek help. A lot of the women who join Foreign Affair are often disappointed with the lack of men that show up. This is one of the reasons international dating has become so regulated. Men will communicate online and then never go to visit, women have feelings and some women give up, that’s why if you go to Foreign Affair there’s no guarantee that the women you see here today will be there in the future. The truth is some guys show up and other guys don’t if you’re a woman communicating with a man online who never goes to the Foreign Affair romance tour yet another guy does show up whose serious about pursuing you, if you’re a woman which guy would you choose?
I’ve over and over again tried to explain to men that women who are serious about pursuing a relationship have a timeline for themselves, women have needs just like men do. What’s often confusing to most Western men about Foreign Affair is why are there so many attractive single women? Why don’t the local men scoop them up? My response to men in easy to understand terms is welfare, when women can’t marry the state they’re forced to view the world from an economic standpoint.
Income redistribution schemes don’t work in the real world, it’s why most if not all western nations are in debt to their central banks, government redistribution schemes are disastrous when they’re implemented by countries who never had any wealth, to begin with. This, of course, shapes the culture, some cultures remedy this by having arranged marriages, other cultures remedy this by treating women as slaves, the countries that are on the Foreign Affair Romance Tour lists are relatively free countries where women, for the most part, aren’t treated as second-class citizens under the law.
In a country where the free market can be suppressed in certain respects, it comprises the freedoms of what women can hope to pursue. This, of course, leads to a lack of opportunity for women and because their welfare system is non-existent the women tend to grow up a lot smarter than they’re given credit for. A lot of women in the Western world, from a different point of view, because government income redistrubution schemes can give them money and benefits that they otherwise wouldn’t receive if the money had to physically come out of their pocket.
This is why some people would perceive international dating as exploitative when in reality it’s not. When people have different realities they behave differently. Just because our debt-fueled current standard of living here in the Western World is the best in the world, doesn’t mean that it’s moral. It doesn’t even mean that it works, it just means that it’s working right now and being that as a society the unproductive can exploit the wealth of the productive and use the government to redistribute the money doesn’t mean that we somehow now have the moral high ground over nations that don’t have the same benefit.
If people in western societies didn’t get major handouts from the government there’s no telling how people would behave. The reality is a lot of women would probably be more open to dating much older men domestically, if the government didn’t provide huge welfare benefits for women being single. Furthermore, as many people know if the court systems in the western world were fairer the spouse making the most money wouldn’t be forced to pay a part of his wealth to his former spouse for the rest of his/her life if they divorced. If alimony laws were changed to be fair the incentive for divorce wouldn’t be as high.
I bring up these issues because when you join free international dating sites a lot of the people using them are flat out scammers, in many instances they’re men pretending to be beautiful women. I don’t understand why a grown man would put himself through that when Foreign Affair has a romance tour, where you can meet you love match in person. even if you can’t find your love match online simply join us at the Foreign Affair Romance Tour, it will change your life, it will change your perspective. In the real world, men and women are equal, men don’t have an advantage over women and women don’t have an advantage over men. This is all about a union that’s beneficial to all sides and my opinion is why waste your time and energy on a free international dating website or App when you can meet the person who interests you in person?