Ashley Madison hacked July 2015

Well I’ve been talking about this since 1999 and at least now people see what I’m talking about. Now I’ve said in several blog and forum postings that there are a lot of people that don’t like adult dating sites period. I’ve never gone on record to call Ashley Madison a scam however I have said that I don’t think they’re the best service and one of the reasons I’ve never been big on Ashley Madison Ashley Madison is because they target people looking to have affairs or cheat on their spouses.

This was always there thing as far as I can remember. Whereas Adult Friend Finder another site that was recently hacked focused on “swingers dating” for those that may not be aware swingers involve couples who invite others into their relationships. As I’ve stated in several forum and blog posts this is one of the features that differentiated Adult Friend Finder from Ashley Madison however since the late 1990’s there have been a lot of people that hated both sites.

I’ve never been one to tell adults what to do with their lives and I disagree with hackers on this one. All people have a right to live their life the way they choose as long as people aren’t breaking the law I don’t think any of us are in a position to make ourselves “moral gods” over others. If a mate is going to cheat they’ll cheat with or without Ashley Madison, Adult Friend Finder or an other dating website that might appear.

Will this blow over? Who knows but it’s happened before it’s happened on almost every dating website just never like this. So say the hackers come from a foreign country maybe they’re home grown I’m not sure but I disagree with them. All people have the right live and surf the internet safely I don’t want the government to step in and start taking away people’s rights because of these hackers.

Get to know your partner

I write a lot about relationships and one of the things I like to tell people is take the time to get to know your partner. It’s not all about sex when it comes to a “RELATIONSHIP” Yes people looking for sexual encounters will join Ashley Madison or Adult Friend Finder but when you get married or start a real relationship with anyone take the time to get to know them. One of the reasons I’ve been so successful with Adult Friend Finder is because I take the time to get to know people I’m interested in. When I’m out at gatherings I try to get to know people and I allow people to get to know me as well.

If your expectation of a relationship is work, play with the kids have sex with the spouse, your spouse may find their way to a site like Ashley Madison or Adult Friend Finder without your knowledge. People including myself we want to feel loved we want communication we want to know our relationship partner.

If any person I’m trying to start a relationship with refuses to open themselves up I won’t start a relationship with them. What’s the point in that? I don’t want to be guessing all the time and wonder what my partner is doing behind my back. I say this in closing because the hackers attacking Ashley Madison don’t seem like bad people but I don’t think they should try and control people’s lives with threats furthermore I don’t want the government to crack down on our liberties because of this Ashley Madison incident.

I wish you all the best and I recommend anyone in a relationship or thinking about getting into a relationship get to know their partner and really communicate with them because I find the truth always comes out when you communicate, you’ll know by how you feel how your partners thinks and who they are via communication. Thanks again for reading everyone I’ll see you on the forums!