SecretBenefits.com Review Is It a Scam?
My apologies to the subscribers for taking so long with this review. As you all know when I’m presented with a site that I can’t find any reliable information on I have test drive it for myself. Well when it comes to SecretBenefits based on my reviews my conclusion is that it’s not a scam, however it’s a long ways away from me calling them legit either. Instinctively I thought SecretBenefits.com was a scam the moment I saw its contact page which as of February 2018 has NO PHONE SUPPORT and no identifiable physical address.
Contacting SecretBenefits.com for me was unacceptable, I typically don’t get into the financial aspects of a dating website because in many ways this is a subjective topic, however I’m not impressed with SecretBenefits.com contact us page. On there homepage SecretBenefits states
Your Relationship. Your Way.
We help men and women find their dream arrangement so they can get what they really want out of their relationships.
Apparently that slogan comes with a price, one of the reasons I took so long with this review is because from my perspective this approach to dating is flawed from the outset. This type of dating is better served as a service and not just a dating website.
It resembles very much international dating. The reason I began this post with their contact us page is because international dating service like Foreign Affair have email and phone support. Furthermore
Foreign Affair has an actual United States address, because they’re not just some online dating website, Foreign Affair is a service that actually brings men and women together in physical sense which is why they have real testimonials.
The major flaw in sugar baby, sugar daddy dating based on my experiences is that people tend not to want to meet under those agreements. Most well to do men and women even if they like to spend money on their beloved tend not to want that to be the basis of their relationship. When a relationship revolves around a one person spending to get love, well those relationships don’t usually last long unless. ofcourse the two parties have children together.
How this all ties together based on my research is that this industry is better served as a service with a physical address instead of just a dating app or a website.
Personal thoughts regarding SecretBenefits.com
In western society presently dating a person for their money is frowned upon, I actually agree with this. However dating a person for who they are somehow got lumped into dating a person for money? By that I mean age somehow got thrown into all of this. Some people mature faster than others, that’s the truth and money isn’t really an important factor to any of this. If you’re a mature woman regardless of your age you’ll want a mature man. Same goes for men, mature men want mature women.
The real confusion in all of this is western society dictating what maturity is and when a person matures, society also tries to dictate to people what’s acceptable or not, trying to blend acceptable with legal. I don’t advocate breaking any laws ever, laws are put in place for a reason but I do have a problem with what’s acceptable.
Personally I don’t have any moral problems with SecretBenefits however I do think their service is lacking in areas I think are important to this type of niche services. Again I point back to Foreign Affair it’s not just a dating website it’s a service where they will arrange for you to meet with the person you’re interested in dating. Now because of demand Foreign Affair caters to men who want to expand their domestic dating possibilities and date internationally.
My point here is that has led to Foreign Affair users men and women garnering undeniable proven results. The Foreign Affair testimonials speak for themselves, not to mention the videos, the marriages, the written testimonials and the ongoing influx of new users. Dating when there’s a prearranged financial component embedded into the relationship? I don’t know… There’s a reason why SecretBenefits.com has to add the following details
“The promotion of prostitution is strictly forbidden. Escorts are not allowed to use this website.”
on their sign up form.
Final thoughts regarding SecretBenefits.com
Is SecretBenefits.com a scam? I don’t think so, are they legit? I don’t think so. Based on my reviews would I recommend SecretBenefits to anyone? No! With that said any questions or concerns you have regarding should be addressed to the SecretBenefits.com staff directly.
When it comes to adult dating I have not changed my position, a lot of people have taken information from my posts and tried to use it as the basis of their dating platform. I talked in lengthy detail about Adult Friend Finder and how swingers, escorts, live web cam models, models and people in the alternative dating industry used it.
I also made sure I pointed out that Adult Friend Finder started in 1996 and was better known in the San Fernando Valley for those of us swingers who preferred our relationships on our own terms and pretty much how Adult Friend Finder spread organically as opposed to being promoted by scammers trying to make a quick buck. A lot of wealthy people have used Adult Friend Finder and it’s just one of those things where there is no definite way on how to explain why some people are successful at online dating with Adult Friend Finder and others are not.
No dating website is perfect but at the very least Adult Friend Finder has been consistent, scams don’t last for over 22 years and yes people that’s how long they’ve been online. I wouldn’t write so fondly of them if people weren’t having success.