FetLife.com Review Is It a Scam?
If you’re looking for the real sex Facebook or Fuckbook as it’s often advertised then FetLife is definitely it, probably not the best place to meet someone but by far Fetlife.com is one of the best BDSM & fetish communities online. That being said if you join FetLife.com be warned that if you’re going to meet someone I highly recommend getting them on some kind of video chat service first. The drawback of social media sites is high degrees of spam and people from third world nations posing as Americans or Englishmen for those of you who don’t know this is why some of us prefer premium dating sites over free dating websites or free social networks.
Yes spam is in premium dating however there is little room for spammers to operate in premium dating services whereas with free dating or free social networking it’s often easy for scammers to be whoever they want to be undetected and even when they’re caught often times those same scammers will just create another free account posing as someone else.
Personal thoughts regarding Fetlife.com
I’ve join every large free dating service out there POF, Okcupid and a few others and the issue to me remains the same too many people that aren’t serious and too many people that play games. When services are free women especially get a lot of messages so they’ll in most cases delete majority of them in premium dating services free members can usually only wink and what the means for people like me that upgrade is we have better chances or more opportunities to meet people.
Yes I’m aware that some of the same women that join free dating websites also join premium dating websites however the difference between the two that I’ve found is response even when I write the exact same message and post the exact same pictures it never fails me that I get better responses from the paid sites. FetLife in my opinion will be online for a very long times based on the fact that you can join groups, attend events find Local BDSM communities, post videos pictures etc. all for free.
As many of you know there are small fees $5 month to “support” Fetlife in its development I think these fees are fair and just I just wonder if they’ll end up like most dating websites that attempted the free route which is either they go belly up or slowly make the transition to a premium dating website is the $5 Fee just a start for Fetlife we’ll just have to wait and see.
Final thoughts regarding FetLife.com
I’ve been a member of FetLife since early 2012 and what I can say is I haven’t had much success with it most of the messages I get from Fetlife now occupy my spam folder I think their concept is great however I’ve never been a big supporter of the BDSM or Kinkster community. That being said I do think FetLife has built something special I wish them all the best I don’t think they’re a scam 100% legit honest and hardworking. Most of the reviews of this site have been good my review is they’re worth checking out most of my male friends are members however I have yet to meet a real woman using FetLife.com.
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As a middle aged person I don’t like wasting time on social networking sites the only social networking site I check to be honest is Meetup.com reason being because that site leads to me going out somewhere other social networking sites where you just make friends aren’t really my thing. When it comes to adult dating I prefer using Adult Friend Finder why? Because members are there for the same or similar reasons at Adult Friend Finder I can be friends with someone after we’ve met which is how I like it. I want people to get to know me so I can get to know them and then we can decide if we’ll correspond later but this whole join online groups with people I never met isn’t really my thing.
As a premium adult dating website Adult Friend Finder is just as busy as Fetlife.com yet I’ve met way more people using them. Adult Friend Finder has over 40 million REGISTERED members worldwide and to those of you that don’t know Adult Friend Finder is part of Penthouse bought out for $500 million dollars. Adult Friend Finder has been online since 1996 I’ve been a member since 1999 this is what works for me and I write primarily because I feel it’s important that people know the difference between established adult dating websites from these new scam dating websites populating the internet.