While engaging in our last debate, I thought it would be a good idea to post my views on this blog regarding domestic and international dating so my readers could have a better perspective on my viewpoints—so they don’t confuse my content with other creators.
We’re Not Bashing Western Women When We Recommend International Dating as an Alternative
I believe there has been a bit of confusion when we post about international dating—some compare my views to other content creators who want to “reform” or “change” Western women. That’s not my position. My position is that **life is short**, and if you’re a Western man struggling to find love in the Western world, Foreign Affair is a viable alternative that helps you avoid online scammers asking men for money.
If you’re a Western man using other “free” or paid international dating sites, you’re often being scammed by AI bots or fake profiles. If you’re 35 or older, you shouldn’t waste time on this nonsense. Why would you put yourself through that when there’s a reputable option like Foreign Affair?
Remember, when dating internationally, there’s always a risk—you could be harmed or deceived overseas if you meet strangers online. Foreign Affair is not a dating app; it’s an introductions service with online features. The old “mail-order bride” era is over. Today, you have to meet the woman in person—and because Foreign Affair has a strong reputation, many attractive women use it.
It’s common sense—if you’re a woman seeking security, you’ll choose a dating service that filters out the fakes. If you’re not a productive man, you probably can’t afford to use Foreign Affair. It sounds harsh, but it’s true. Their testimonials speak for themselves because they deliver real results.
Do Not Confuse This with Passport Bros
There’s nothing wrong with being part of the “Passport Bros” movement, but Foreign Affair isn’t that. We’re more private and exclusive. Most testimonials on the Foreign Affair website aren’t public because many couples prefer to keep their relationships private.
As you’ll see, Foreign Affair is transparent with its pricing. They host singles tours—legitimate gatherings of foreign women and Western men who are there to date. Compare that to some Passport Bro content where men take unnecessary risks in high-crime areas or meet escorts seeking payment for sex.
I’ve said it before: you save far more money and time using Foreign Affair, and you’re not pursuing escorts. Do you really want to start a relationship that way? Foreign Affair is for mature men—because that’s exactly what mature women are looking for.
Disagreements with Our Adult-Dating Approach
We have the data. Although more men than women join adult-dating websites, women still participate—that’s where market demand is. Studies also show many women find long-term partners on sites like Adult Friend Finder, because in that environment men are being their true selves rather than the façade women often see on traditional dating apps.
Many men pretend to be something they’re not—and then they’re surprised when Western women leave them after marriage. Here’s a quick example:
“Guy only wants to have sex. Guy joins eHarmony because he thinks pretty girls to sleep with are there. Pretty girl joins eHarmony hoping to find a man who wants her for more than sex. They meet, have sex, guy loses interest, treats her badly, and she concludes all men are dogs.”
Social media fuels this confirmation bias. One reason we removed most advertising from this blog is that the big ad networks now feed you content that confirms your beliefs, making it feel like everyone agrees with you—creating an “us vs. them” illusion.
When you join platforms like Adult Friend Finder, there’s no false pretense. Many men hide their addictions or insecurities. When people lie, they hurt themselves, not others. That’s why I support adult-dating environments: because “free” and mainstream apps are often more responsible for hookup culture than Adult Friend Finder. At least with adult dating, you know exactly what you’re getting into.
Final Thoughts: Dating for Men vs. Women, the Welfare State, and Economics
There was a time when people claimed men were exploiting women overseas. I argue, then and now, that foreign women are actually ahead of the curve—because life is short and good men are in short supply.
One thing we all know is true in the Western world: many women would rather marry the government than marry a man. And who could blame them? Imagine earning a livable income without needing a job or a husband.
This isn’t just a Western phenomenon—it’s global. Many women in developing nations don’t like to work either, but without a welfare state, they must be proactive. They know they have to **add value** to a relationship.
Even escorts add more value to society than women who live off welfare. In Western culture, politics drives investment and demand. Supermarkets are stocked for women who neither work nor have working partners.
If you’re a woman who benefits from this system, a man or patriarchy seems like a liability. That’s why mature men with careers or businesses must carefully **interview any woman** before starting a family. Why? Because she can file for both child support and alimony.
Many men, realizing there’s no perfect solution, turn to services like Foreign Affair—where women see life differently. You’ll notice most women there are attractive and take care of themselves because they understand the **value of a good, mature man.**
In the West, some women can argue they don’t need men because the government has always supported them. But women with common sense see the writing on the wall: what we have now is not sustainable.
Socialism, particularly in places like America, bullies productive men. And when men are bullied, society eventually collapses. In developing nations, when men are pushed too far, they fight back. The same can happen in Western countries.
If a woman on welfare suddenly needs her light fixed or her toilet repaired, she’ll find that men who do those jobs now demand top dollar for their time. That’s why many developing nations have so many single but attractive women—because men everywhere share a code of ethics: they refuse to be bullied.
Without using statistics, I’m showing why **socialism doesn’t work**. Free-market capitalism does—because prices rise and fall with demand. A hardworking, mature man will see an unmotivated woman with a bad attitude as a liability.
Any woman can find a man for casual sex, but finding a good man requires effort and self-improvement—a skill foreign women often embrace, while many Western women neglect it. When the welfare state collapses, both men and women will face a harsh reality. Competent men will rebuild quickly; bureaucracy only delays progress. When the economic reset arrives, we’ll see who was truly prepared.
As a mature man, when you add value, never be ashamed of it. That’s why I recommend the services I do. Thanks for reading, and I hope this post clarifies my position.